[{"@context":"https:\/\/schema.org\/","@type":"Article","@id":"https:\/\/www.gatemont.cz\/postrach-vsech-rodicu\/#Article","mainEntityOfPage":"https:\/\/www.gatemont.cz\/postrach-vsech-rodicu\/","headline":"Postrach v\u0161ech rodi\u010d\u016f","name":"Postrach v\u0161ech rodi\u010d\u016f","description":"Kdy\u017e jsou d\u011bti mal\u00e9, p\u0159ejeme si, aby u\u017e trochu povyrostly a nebylo s nimi tolik pr\u00e1ce. Ale kdy\u017e n\u00e1s za\u010d\u00ednaj\u00ed p\u0159er\u016fstat, je\u0161t\u011b vzpom\u00edn\u00e1me na obdob\u00ed, kdy byly pouh\u00fdmi roztomil\u00fdmi batolaty. Jen\u017ee obdob\u00ed puberty se prost\u011b p\u0159esko\u010dit ned\u00e1 a v\u0161ichni \u2013 jak d\u011bti, tak jejich rodi\u010de \u2013 si j\u00edm mus\u00ed proj\u00edt. B\u00e1t se dop\u0159edu smysl v\u0161ak […]","datePublished":"2023-04-29","dateModified":"2023-04-29","author":{"@type":"Person","@id":"https:\/\/www.gatemont.cz\/author\/#Person","name":"gatemont.cz\n","url":"https:\/\/www.gatemont.cz\/author\/","identifier":1,"image":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/e746f9a3ec3ffe02f5df809714d800d50faf9f4f5ba0a7962a5d8229603fd33b?s=96&d=mm&r=g","url":"https:\/\/secure.gravatar.com\/avatar\/e746f9a3ec3ffe02f5df809714d800d50faf9f4f5ba0a7962a5d8229603fd33b?s=96&d=mm&r=g","height":96,"width":96}},"publisher":{"@type":"Organization","name":"gatemont.cz","logo":{"@type":"ImageObject","@id":"\/logo.png","url":"\/logo.png","width":600,"height":60}},"url":"https:\/\/www.gatemont.cz\/postrach-vsech-rodicu\/","about":["D\u011bti"],"wordCount":444,"articleBody":"Kdy\u017e jsou d\u011bti mal\u00e9, p\u0159ejeme si, aby u\u017e trochu povyrostly a nebylo s nimi tolik pr\u00e1ce. Ale kdy\u017e n\u00e1s za\u010d\u00ednaj\u00ed p\u0159er\u016fstat, je\u0161t\u011b vzpom\u00edn\u00e1me na obdob\u00ed, kdy byly pouh\u00fdmi roztomil\u00fdmi batolaty. Jen\u017ee obdob\u00ed puberty se prost\u011b p\u0159esko\u010dit ned\u00e1 a v\u0161ichni \u2013 jak d\u011bti, tak jejich rodi\u010de \u2013 si j\u00edm mus\u00ed proj\u00edt. B\u00e1t se dop\u0159edu smysl v\u0161ak nem\u00e1. Ka\u017ed\u00e9 d\u00edt\u011b m\u00e1 pubertu trochu jinou, n\u011bkter\u00e9 m\u00edrn\u011bj\u0161\u00ed a jin\u00e9 bou\u0159livou. V\u011bt\u0161inou v\u0161ak to, \u010deho se v duchu d\u011bs\u00edme, nep\u0159ijde, ale p\u0159ijdou probl\u00e9my jin\u00e9.
 
 ZKOU\u0160KA OHN\u011aM
 Proto\u017ee puberta je p\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm bou\u0159en\u00ed se proti autorit\u00e1m, pro rodi\u010de je skute\u010dnou zkou\u0161kou ohn\u011bm. Je opravdu t\u011b\u017ek\u00e9 sm\u00ed\u0159it se s t\u00edm, \u017ee na\u0161e d\u00edt\u011b si najednou hled\u00e1 vlastn\u00ed cestu \u017eivotem, ve kter\u00e9 se s n\u00e1mi u\u017e jaksi nepo\u010d\u00edt\u00e1. Jedin\u00e9, co n\u00e1s m\u016f\u017ee ut\u011b\u0161ovat je to, \u017ee na\u0161e rodi\u010de jsme v pubert\u011b tak\u00e9 vyt\u00e1\u010deli a i dne\u0161n\u00edm dosp\u00edvaj\u00edc\u00edm se tato \u0161tafeta vr\u00e1t\u00ed.
 
 Co \u010dekat
 P\u0159edev\u0161\u00edm zvraty n\u00e1lad a pocit\u016f, prudk\u00e9 reakce, vztahova\u010dnost a odm\u00edt\u00e1n\u00ed komunikace.
 
 Co d\u011blat
 V pubert\u011b je vlastn\u011b t\u0159eba, abyste se se sv\u00fdm d\u00edt\u011btem od sebe odd\u011blili, a to pr\u00e1v\u011b proto, abyste se mohli op\u011bt postupn\u011b naj\u00edt a postupn\u011b sbl\u00ed\u017eit a\u017e do vztahu dvou dosp\u011bl\u00fdch lid\u00ed. Zat\u00edm mus\u00edte m\u00edt jen mnoho trp\u011blivosti. Jednou prost\u011b mus\u00edme nad sv\u00fdmi d\u011btmi pustit kontrolu, jinak by ani dosp\u011bt nemohly. Pro Va\u0161e d\u011bti je ale i v pubert\u011b nesm\u00edrn\u011b d\u016fle\u017eit\u00e9, aby v\u011bd\u011bly, \u017ee je m\u00e1te r\u00e1dy a z\u00e1le\u017e\u00ed V\u00e1m na nich:
 \u00b7 upev\u0148ujte vztah = chovejte se k d\u00edt\u011bti sp\u00ed\u0161e jako k dosp\u011bl\u00e9mu, ale z\u00e1rove\u0148 s pochopen\u00edm
 \u00b7 pozn\u00e1vejte jeho sv\u011bt = zaj\u00edmejte se co d\u011bl\u00e1, ptejte se ho na jeho n\u00e1zory
 \u00b7 stanovte pravidla = jasn\u011b vymezte chov\u00e1n\u00ed a tak\u00e9 dohodu o d\u016fsledc\u00edch
 \u00b7 zachovejte d\u016fstojnost a soukrom\u00ed
 \u00b7 povzbuzujte = nic neberte jako samoz\u0159ejmost, i kdy\u017e jej n\u011bkdy m\u00e1te chu\u0165 \u201ep\u0159izab\u00edt\u201c
 
 Co ned\u011blat
 \u00b7 nekla\u010fte si vinu = nem\u016f\u017eete za to, \u017ee vyv\u00e1d\u00ed a mali\u010dkosti zkuste h\u00e1zet za hlavu
 \u00b7 nenu\u0165te d\u00edt\u011b, aby se V\u00e1m se v\u0161\u00edm sv\u011b\u0159ovalo
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